“It Is Not Good for Man to Be Alone. I’ll Make Him a Helper Who Complements Him!”

 Bribed, Blackmailed & Brainwashed: “The War On The Sexes” – Part #28

By Richard Allen – September 28, 2026

One of the Ironies of the Viral Feminist Movement, including the ‘Me Too Movement’ of the past decade and the variant ‘Trans-Gender Strain’ we’ve been plagued with since the Obama Presidency, is: The Feminist Movement has devastated the very gender (women) they claimed to champion! This is not just a trite statement made by myself, an older man lamenting modernity, but the observation of many Sociologists and Researchers who have chronicled the current status of Western Women. It’s become clear to me as a Christian thinker, that the ‘Evil One’ (Satan) hates humanity and only wishes to steal, kill and destroy (John 10:10). What we are witnessing today is no longer ‘the war of the sexes,’ but ‘The War On The Sexes!’ Satan is viciously attacking both men and women in Post-Christian Cultures. Google AI, quoting Conservative Scholars and think tanks (Institute for Family Studies and the Heritage Foundation), compiled five findings on women's well-being, using ‘the lens of social stability, marital health, and complementary sex roles’ as the criteria. Here is an abbreviated synopsis of their findings:

1. The "Paradox of Female Happiness"

Conservative social scientists frequently point to a well-documented phenomenon known in sociology as the Paradox of Declining Female Happiness. Despite massive gains in legal rights, education and career opportunities . . . measures of women's self-reported happiness have steadily declined relative to men. Sociologists argue that modern society has pressured women to "have it all". . . rather than liberating women . . . This has created an exhausting double burden, leading to higher rates of anxiety and burnout.

2. The Vital Importance of Marriage and Motherhood

While progressive sociology often views traditional marriage as a historically oppressive institution, conservative sociology views it as the foundational bedrock of female and child well-being. Data from conservative and centrist think tanks consistently show that married women, on average, report higher levels of financial security, physical safety, and life satisfaction than single, divorced, or cohabiting women. Psychologists operating from a conservative framework argue that modern culture devalues motherhood and homemaking. They contend that raising children and building a stable home environment provide deep psychological fulfillment that a corporate career often cannot replicate.

3. Biological Essentialism vs. Gender Socialization

In psychology, conservative-leaning scholars and evolutionary psychologists (such as Dr. Jordan Peterson. . . ) push back against the mainstream sociological view that gender roles are entirely socially constructed. They argue that men and women have evolved with distinct psychological traits. For example, cross-cultural psychological studies show that even in the most egalitarian societies (like Scandinavia), women still overwhelmingly choose people-oriented careers (like healthcare and education), while men choose thing-oriented careers (like engineering and STEM). Conservative psychologists argue that trying to force a 50/50 gender split in every industry ignores natural female preferences and creates unnecessary systemic frustration.

4. The Critique of the "Sexual Revolution"

Conservative psychologists and cultural critics argue that the sexual revolution and the rise of modern hookup culture have been deeply disadvantageous to women. From an evolutionary psychology perspective, women generally require higher levels of emotional investment and security due to the biological realities of reproduction. Conservative analysts argue that casual sexual cultures benefit men while leaving women vulnerable to emotional distress, loneliness and a devaluation of their intrinsic worth.

5. The Impact on Men and its Ripple Effect on Women

Conservative sociology looks at the state of women through the health of the entire social ecosystem, meaning, the decline of men directly harms women. As young men experience rising rates of educational underachievement, unemployment and social withdrawal, conservative sociologists note that women face a shrinking pool of "marriageable" partners, who are economically and emotionally stable, creating a Mating Crisis . . . Feminisms’ focus on absolute female independence has fractured the natural interdependence between the sexes, leaving both men and women more isolated. [https://share.google/aimode/Ih4ikOpihbsiAe2Jd]

These findings are both startling and true. Ultimately, these changes all point back to ‘The Conspiracy of Satan.’ The Evil One has worked through man’s own ‘Reprobate Mind’ (Romans 1:28), to radically attack the institutions of marriage and family, and supplant these institutions with nebulous ideas of ‘Freedom, Choice and Empowerment.’ Our modern age – far removed from the ‘Biblical Thinking’ of generations past – has swallowed every false idea and presumption, and drastically changed the culture since the ‘Sexual Freedom Movement’ in the 1960’s.  These crazy theories – taught as fact to ‘millions of young adults’ on College campuses across Western Societies has had devastating results. The most obvious being: In ‘Post Christian Societies,’ men have abandoned the ‘traditional use of the woman,’ and ‘women have abandoned the traditional use of the man.’ Too few young adults marry or are having children! But the pathology goes well beyond just the impact on the family. Both men and women are choosing ‘same-sex’ relationships at an alarming rate. And for many men, having sexual relationships with ‘images online’ has become a replacement for an actual relationship with a ‘live person.’ In order to do justice to these ‘Five Findings,’ we’ll take a look at each Finding separately as we move through this series.

1. The "Paradox of Female Happiness" – One of the ironies of our modern age is the “Paradox of Female Happiness.” In this scenario, the ‘best and the brightest females’ who have the most successful careers, highest incomes with financial security and endless opportunities, compete as equals with their male counterparts in the marketplace. All this success affords them the privilege to be ‘very selective’ in choosing a prospective male from the ‘dating pool.’  In fact, they are so selective, they have ‘unicorn standards’ for any male to even approach them.  He needs to be 6’ tall or more, physically fit, movie star handsome, financially secure, chivalrous and doting on every financial need the female may desire, yet politically ‘woke and liberated’ from any toxic male behavior. These ‘Brainwashed Women” don’t realize what they are actually asking for, does not exist:  A ‘hyper-traditionalized’ male who will treat the woman like a queen – while embracing her ‘Radical Feminist Ideology!’  Her ideology tells her that most ‘hyper-traditionalized’ behaviors – to which she feels entitled – are actually demeaning and condescending, each behavior proclaiming to her that ‘she is helpless, weak and not his equal.’ These women have been indoctrinated by a combination of ‘higher education, social media and the Entertainment-Industrial-Complex.’ They not only believe they ‘can have it all,’ but they are ‘entitled to have it all!’

2. The Vital Importance of Marriage and Motherhood – Probably the worst byproduct of the Radical Feminist Movement in the 1960’s was the demeaning of both Marriage and Motherhood in the minds of young women. These ideas are totally contrary to nature and the way God created us – Male and Female. Modern Education, taking its cue from ‘Radical Marxist Ideology’ – has ‘mis-educated’ an entire generation of young women – to the point that most of them don’t feel the need to marry. They disdain any need ‘to populate the earth with one more parasitical mouth to feed,’ a mouth to pollute and destroy the planet with the CO2 they exhale – as well as the ‘Plastics, Styrofoam and Carbon’ they’ll release into the environment. Nowhere is the ‘Anti-God, Anti-Human attitude’ demonstrated more clearly than in the mindset toward Marriage, Family and Bringing Children into the world. This movement, starting with the National Organization of Women (NOW), makes it no secret that ‘they hate men, and believe it’s high time to get even with them.’ Little do they understand, that by hating men, marriage and motherhood – they have completely stripped away the value of their own maternal roles in society.

3. Biological Essentialism vs. Gender Socialization – Education, Culture and Social Media have stigmatized ‘traditional maternal roles for women’ over the past 50+ years. They’ve done their best to belittle these roles and dissuade young females from pursuing traditional marriage and motherhood, ‘Brainwashing’ many of them that these roles are just ‘Social Constructs’ left over from the Male Patriarchy.  But as time moved on, the sad reality is, that most women don’t want to be men, focused only on their careers, success and voyeurism. Deep inside, God has hidden desires for love and marriage – and most of all, to bear and nurture a child. But many of them have awakened in their late 30’s, 40’s and 50's, only to realize the ‘utter emptiness of seeking to live as a single man.’  They may have all the status toys they desire, but this doesn’t compensate for the missed opportunity and satisfaction of being a ’home-maker, wife and mother.’

4. The Critique of the "Sexual Revolution" – The ‘hook-up culture’ that promoted masculine norms of sex – not tied to marriage, commitment and family, is possibly the most profound finding of recent studies. Most women long for the fruit of sexual unions – ‘a Child!’ But the modern age that promised to give women ‘Sexual Freedom’ – only gave them ‘Freedom from Love, Commitment, Family, Children and Stability. Women in their 40’s and 50’s, most past the age of ‘child-bearing,’ discovered the lie that ‘they could  have it all.’  All the success they’ve gained ‘conquering in the workplace like their male counterparts’ – is empty, as these very males they so wanted to emulate, are settling down with much younger women in their 20’s to start their families. They were sold the lie that they could ‘wait and make their first million dollars’ before starting a family. Now, as they drift into menopause and old age, they’re ‘rich, privileged and living in loneliness and  luxury with a cat.’

5. The Impact on Men and Its Ripple Effect on Women – Just to balance these horrible findings, let me point out that Men are also victims of ‘The War on the Sexes’ that the Evil One has waged on ‘modernity.’ As a counterpart to the ‘Brainwashing’ that young women have experienced, men as well have turned away from what was once considered: ‘The Hunt,’ that is, dating and pursuing females to marry and pro-create. Most young men have chosen: ‘Not to enter the ‘dating arena’ at all.  Who can blame them? After generations of being told that any attention shown toward females is ‘predatory’ and a display of ‘toxic masculinity,’ why take the risk?  An unwanted advance can get you ‘thrown out of school, fired at work or Cancelled on Social Media.’ So, after being shamed by Education, Culture, Social Media and Entertainment about the dangers of their behaving in a masculine role – they now pursue male companionship, video games and sports – with their own kind – other young men.

The sad conclusion of these findings is not the outcomes above, it’s the ‘hatred, mistrust and failure of several generations to engage with the opposite sex.’ As I’ve observed in other Blogs – this is the clear plan of the ‘Evil One,’ to ‘Wage War on the Sexes,’ pitting men and women against one another. This is not the Biblical Model of “A man leaving his father and mother and cleaving to his wife” (Gensis 2:24). This is a phony war, in that it’s a war that has been instigated by ‘spiritual forces’ to wreak havoc upon mankind. Like all the ‘fronts in this war,’ all of them are aimed at Christ and His Church! Abortion has had the exact opposite effect of what was promised:  There are many children neglected, abandoned and mistreated – not less. The ‘Lesbian, Gay, Bi-Sexual, Transgender Movement’ (LGBT) has not brought people ‘freedom of expression or peace.’ The whole movement was purposed to ‘destroy the sanctity of marriage and family.’ The unhealthy ‘competition between men and women’ hasn’t empowered anyone. Paul warned the Church at Corinth that while God has ordained roles within marriage for Male and Female, neither is independent of the other: But in the Lord, women are not independent of men, and men are not independent of women" (1 Corinthians 11:11). From the beginning, Woman was made as a ‘helper’ to the man, that is: ‘One corresponding to him,’ the meaning of the word helper in Genesis 2:18. God’s plan was not for Men and Women to be at War with each other, but rather – for Man and Woman to be a picture of Christ as His Bride – The Church: “ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church” (1 Corinthians 11:31-32).

Soli Deo Gloria!